An Enemy Delay

In the journey of life, it is often said that the greatest hindrances to progress sometimes come from within. This truth is evident not only in our workplaces and families but also, heartbreakingly, within the Church of God. It is sad to note that many brethren, rather than being agents of growth and love, have become obstacles to others' spiritual, mental, and even physical progress. These actions, whether through backbiting, gossip, or unfair treatment, can cause profound delays, especially mentally and emotionally, ultimately affecting someone’s journey through life.

The Reality of Betrayal in the Church

The Church, designed to be a haven for broken souls and a place of spiritual rejuvenation, sometimes becomes the stage for acts of betrayal. We’ve all heard stories—perhaps even experienced—where a brother or sister in Christ has been backstabbed by someone they trusted.

Imagine a young believer, full of zeal, stepping into ministry with a heart ready to serve. Instead of receiving support, they are met with murmurs behind their back:

• "Who does he think he is?"

• "She’s not qualified to lead this team."

• "I know things about their past; they’re not as holy as they seem."

These words, though often uttered in secrecy, have the power to crush spirits. Some brethren, out of envy or selfish ambition, begin to sabotage others’ efforts, spreading false rumors or working covertly to ensure someone else fails.

Cheated and Denied Justice

One story that highlights this reality is that of Sister Martha, a dedicated choir member in her local church. Martha poured her time and resources into ensuring the choir excelled. However, when the position of choir director became vacant, she was overlooked. Instead, the position was given to someone less qualified, simply because they had the "right connections" with the church leaders.

Hurt but determined to stay faithful, Martha continued to serve. Yet, the whispers and cold shoulders from some brethren became unbearable. She was accused of being prideful and unwilling to submit, though her actions showed otherwise. Despite all the sacrifices she had made, no one spoke up for her or acknowledged her efforts. Justice was never served.

Such treatment does not only break hearts but also delays the mental and emotional growth of the victim. Martha, once confident and vibrant, now struggles with self-doubt. Her passion for ministry waned, and she withdrew from the choir entirely.

Mental Delay: The Ripple Effect

When people are mistreated within the church, it creates a mental delay in their journey. This delay manifests in several ways:

• 1. Loss of Confidence: The constant criticism and lack of support can cause individuals to question their abilities and worth.

• 2. Spiritual Stagnation: When someone feels rejected by the very community meant to nurture them, their spiritual growth may come to a standstill.

• 3. Emotional Wounds: The pain of betrayal often leads to bitterness, resentment, and a reluctance to trust others again.

• 4. Delayed Purpose: Many, like Martha, abandon their God-given assignments due to the actions of others, thus delaying the fulfillment of their purpose.

What Does the Bible Say?

The Bible warns against such behaviors among brethren. James 3:16 states, “For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.” Instead of fostering growth and unity, envy and strife create chaos and delay the collective progress of the church.

Jesus Himself experienced betrayal from within. Judas, one of His twelve disciples, sold Him out for thirty pieces of silver. Yet, Christ’s response teaches us the way forward: forgiveness and a focus on God’s plan.

Breaking Free from the Delay

If you’ve been a victim of such acts, it’s important to recognize that your journey is ultimately in God’s hands. While the actions of others may cause temporary setbacks, they cannot permanently derail God’s plans for your life.

Here are a few steps to break free from the mental and spiritual delay caused by betrayal:

• 1. Forgive: Forgiveness is not about excusing the actions of others but freeing yourself from the burden of bitterness.

• 2. Focus on God: Remember that your service is to God, not man. Colossians 3:23 reminds us to work heartily as unto the Lord.

• 3. Seek Healing: Talk to a trusted mentor or counselor about your experiences. Sometimes, sharing your pain can be the first step toward healing.

• 4. Keep Moving Forward: Refuse to let the actions of others define your journey. God has a purpose for you, and no one can stop it if you remain steadfast.

A Call to the Church

As a body of Christ, we must do better. Let us strive to be our brother’s keeper, lifting one another up instead of tearing each other down. Backbiting, gossip, and favoritism have no place in the church. Instead, let us embody the love and unity that Christ prayed for in John 17:21: “That they all may be one, as You, Father, are in Me, and I in You.”

An enemy delay can only succeed if we allow it. As individuals and as a church, let us rise above the pettiness and work together to advance God’s kingdom. Only then can we truly fulfill our calling as the body of Christ.

Let us remember: Our journey is with God, and no man can delay what He has ordained.