What Your Pastor Will Never Tell You
Have you ever wondered what really goes on behind the pulpit? Behind the sermons, the singing, and the suits lies a deeper layer of truth – some of which your pastor may never tell you. Not because they are evil, but because they are also human. In this post, we reveal the untold facts about church activities, religious titles, and the real purpose of being born again.
1. Church is Also a Human Institution
While the Church is the body of Christ, most local churches are also human-run organizations. This means:
- Decisions are influenced by human interests – not every decision is spiritual.
- Churches have bills to pay – rent, salaries, logistics, and equipment costs are real concerns.
- Popularity matters – many churches measure success by attendance, social media following, or financial growth.
These realities affect how sermons are crafted, how events are organized, and even how "anointing" is sometimes presented.
2. The Truth About Titles: Bishop, Apostle, Prophet
Most pastors won’t admit this, but many church titles are self-given or honorific. The early church had apostles and elders, but today we have a hierarchy of:
- General Overseers
- Archbishops
- Senior Prophets
- Resident Pastors
While some carry true spiritual responsibility, many are political, promotional, or for public perception. Sadly, some use titles to build loyalty, silence questioning, or manipulate finances.
"Do not let anyone who delights in false humility and the worship of angels disqualify you." – Colossians 2:18 (NIV)
3. The Offering Basket Is Not Always About God
Yes, giving is biblical. But what your pastor may not tell you is that offering has become a major revenue stream for some churches. While some churches use funds righteously, others:
- Pressure members to give beyond their means
- Make emotional appeals using fear or guilt
- Use offering for personal wealth and private luxuries
This is why discernment is key. You should give from your heart, not from compulsion (2 Corinthians 9:7).
4. Pastoral Burnout and Secret Struggles
Pastors are not superhumans. But you may never hear one say, "I am tired," or "I feel like giving up." Many suffer in silence due to:
- Pressure to be perfect
- Lack of genuine accountability
- Financial burdens and unrealistic expectations
Your pastor may be carrying personal burdens while counseling others. The truth is, many pastors cry in private.
"Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." – Galatians 6:2
5. Some Churches Are Business Models
Behind the pulpits, there's sometimes a strategic business plan. This includes:
- Targeted branding and logos
- Membership-driven sales of oil, water, or 'mantles'
- Hierarchy built like corporate offices
Again, not all are wrong – some churches fund outreach, schools, and hospitals. But when money becomes the motive, the Gospel becomes diluted.
6. Being Born Again Is More Than Going to Church
One of the biggest truths your pastor might never break down clearly is the full meaning of being born again. Being born again is not:
- Just attending church every Sunday
- Saying “yes” to altar calls without life change
- Speaking in tongues or knowing Bible verses
Being born again is a total transformation of your spirit by the Holy Spirit. It means:
- Repenting from sin
- Accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior
- Living daily under the control of the Holy Spirit
"Jesus replied, 'Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.'" – John 3:3
7. Church Growth Doesn’t Always Equal God's Presence
Your pastor may not say this, but not every fast-growing church is God-approved. Numbers can be misleading. A crowd doesn’t mean Christ is present. Ask yourself:
- Is the truth of God's word being taught without compromise?
- Are lives truly being changed, not just excited?
- Is love for one another and holiness evident?
Even Satan can attract crowds. But only God transforms hearts.
8. The Purpose of Being Born Again
God didn’t save you to sit in church only – He saved you to walk with Him, represent Him, and reflect His Kingdom daily.
When you're born again, you are:
- Adopted into God's family (Romans 8:15)
- Called to live a holy life (1 Peter 1:16)
- Empowered to make disciples (Matthew 28:19-20)
- Prepared for eternal life (John 17:3)
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new is here!" – 2 Corinthians 5:17
Conclusion: Truth Sets You Free
Your pastor may not say everything – some out of wisdom, some out of fear, and some out of strategy. But you have a responsibility to seek truth from God's Word for yourself.
Don’t idolize the pulpit. Worship God alone. Study the Bible. Pray. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you.
And always remember – being born again is not just a church moment, it is a life transformation.
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Did anything surprise you in this post? Are there truths you wish were taught more openly in church? Let’s hear your thoughts in the comments below.
Stay blessed. Stay grounded. Stay born again.
— Written with love by Richems | www.richems.com
